There is more to listening though, than just being aware of your blocks. What are the steps to listening well? 1. Stop what you are doing, face the person, become present and then listen. This means you have to stop typing on the computer, balancing your checkbook,...
Why do couples argue? As anyone in a relationship knows, conflict is inevitable. Disagreements are a normal part of every human relationship. Couples argue about a variety of things, ranging from child rearing to household upkeep. Although arguments are considered to...
A misconception about therapy that tends to terrify men is that it’s super touchy feely. That it delves deep into the muck and mire of emotions and feelings. Thankfully, there are tons of therapeutic modalities that emphasize logic without dwelling on the emotional...
When Is It Time to Go to Couples Counselling? You and your partner are arguing again. You might be wondering if it is time to go to relationship counseling. After all, every relationship has ups and downs, and it is a big step to go to counseling. When you are having...
One of the most incredible parts of being a therapist is watching our clients’ lives improve. As much as that is true, change seems to happen overnight when you go through our intensive couples retreats. Think of an intensive couples therapy retreat like a...