It’s not uncommon for people to approach their pastor with all sorts of issues, including marital woes. In fact, a wonderful aspect of being part of a congregation is the level of support available.
Yet, with deep-seated marital issues or marital problems that keep popping up, one of the downfalls of relying on a pastor’s counsel could be their lack of psychological training to be a couple’s therapist.
Or it could be that you’re embarrassed or otherwise hesitant to open up to your pastor and share what’s going on.
If you’re grappling with something, your relationship is on a shaky foundation, and you aren’t sure traditional therapy will help, Christian counseling could be the answer you’re looking for.
Here are some of the top reasons to seek a faith-based counselor who can help repair your marriage.
A Christian Counselor Blends the Best of Both Worlds
They are experts in human behavior and are also familiar with scripture. Often blending the two together in a way that feels comfortable and empowering.
You won’t have to worry that they’ll ask you to do something that contradicts your faith.
A Christian Counselor Shares Your Beliefs
They will pray with you if asked, and they share many of the same fundamental values you do.
You don’t have to waste time educating the therapist on how religion impacts various aspects of your day or relationship — they know.
Because they share some of your same values, it can make opening up to them a lot easier.
A Christian Therapist Will Ensure Counseling Aligns with Your Christian Values
You’re able to walk into a session without worrying that some of their advice may not align with what you believe.
A Christian Counselor Won’t Make Your Decisions for You
Just like any therapist, a Christian counselor knows that it is not their decision whether you choose to stay in or leave the marriage. They will help you understand what’s causing the issue and blend scripture with skills and tactics to help you resolve the problem. The focus will be on healing the relationship and deepening your spiritual connection.
Your counselor will be there with you every step of the way as you work through this challenging time.
You Can Still Talk with Your Pastor
Most pastors aren’t licensed mental health professionals, but that doesn’t mean they can’t help. Pastors are wise and wonderful listeners.
Even when you’re seeing a counselor, you’re still free to discuss the issue with your pastor. In fact, if your spouse is hesitant about seeking therapy in the first place, your pastor may be able to alleviate some of their concerns and encourage them to go.
At the Relationship Therapy Center, our Christian counselors are here to help you in a warm, non-judgmental setting.
We have two Northern California locations and provide Christian counseling in both Fair Oaks and Roseville. We also offer virtual sessions.
Please give us a call anytime to hear more about Christian counseling.
Begin Couples Counseling in the Sacramento Area:
If you are ready to learn how to deal with the problems in your relationship, the therapists at The Relationship Therapy Center in Fair Oaks, CA and Roseville, CA can help! Our therapists are ready to support you and your partner in your journey towards creating a healthy and happy relationship. To begin marriage counseling in Roseville, CA area, or marriage counseling in Fair Oaks, please follow these three simple steps:
- Contact our counseling office to get more information about couples counseling and to schedule a free consultation.
- Make an appointment with one of our Gottman Method trained therapists.
- Find support and healing in your relationship!
Other Services Offered at The Relationship Therapy Center in California:
In addition to couples counseling, Our Sacramento area counseling clinics located in Roseville and Fair Oaks, CA are pleased to offer a variety of mental health services. Our couples counseling services include: Counseling after infidelity, sex therapy, co-parent counseling, family therapy, divorce counseling, couples therapy retreats, and premarital counseling. Our individual therapy services include, anxiety treatment, trauma therapy, teen therapy, therapy for children, codependency counseling, depression treatment, and individual relationship counseling. We also offer online counseling to California residents. Please contact our office to learn more about the many ways we can help you and your loved ones.
Certified Gottman Therapist
Nancy Ryan, LMFT & Certified Gottman Therapist, is the Founder and Clinical Director of Relationship Therapy Center, with 15+ years of experience supporting clients in Sacramento, Placer, and El Dorado Counties, and with offices in Roseville, CA, and Fair Oaks, CA. Our team also supports clients throughout California, Idaho, and Washington
She specializes in couples counseling, mentoring, and training her therapists on how to be excellent therapists. Nancy is also featured in a variety of media and provides couples therapy weekend workshops and retreats.
Relationship Therapy Center uses evidence-based approaches such as EMDR for trauma, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness, and Motivational Interviewing to treat individuals. Family therapy focuses on family systems and Play Therapy for children. Evidence-based couples therapy includes using the Gottman Method, Gottman Method Affair recovery/infidelity counseling, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Attachment therapy, and David Schnarch's Crucible Therapy, including differentiation. The whole team is in weekly training on trauma-informed care, somatic techniques, sex therapy, and different topics each year.
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