How Does Your Generation Date?

How Does Your Generation Date?

Romantic relationships are molded by the broader views of society, and the last few generations have each had unique coming of age experiences. The slew of norms, roles, and expectations (many of which are now viewed as outdated, restrictive – even silly) are...
What a Couples Therapist Wants You to Know About Relationships

What a Couples Therapist Wants You to Know About Relationships

Couples counselors are observant. They’re watching the two of you… in session anyway. They’re interpreting what’s is (and isn’t) said. Cueing into things like interruption, body language, tender touches on the shoulder – or lack thereof.  And after seeing couples...
Can Emotionally Unavailable Men Change?

Can Emotionally Unavailable Men Change?

When the two of you met, you felt it. It was powerful, magnetic. Your eyes locked, and everyone else at the party disappeared into the periphery. You chatted for hours that night, and he wouldn’t let you leave without getting your number first. In the early...
Micro-Cheating: Signs and What to Do About It

Micro-Cheating: Signs and What to Do About It

You’re trying something, a little experiment. Lately, he’s been glued to his phone. You see a smile playing at his lips…“What’s making you smile?” you ask.Immediately, as if you just electrocuted him, he snaps back to attention.  “Nothing.”You know it’s not...
How to Have a Passionate Marriage

How to Have a Passionate Marriage

Chances are, you remember what passion feels like. It’s thrilling; all consuming! Your fantasies know no bounds, and when the two of you get together, clothes off – it’s on! Fast forward…now it’s mechanical. Predictable. Scheduled and wooden. You find...
How to Have a Healthy Marriage: Tips From a Therapist

How to Have a Healthy Marriage: Tips From a Therapist

You’ve probably heard that marriage requires work, but what does that mean? What is the work? Perhaps a better, more helpful way to convey that message would involve specifics: Marriage requires presence. Marriage requires regular communication. Marriage requires...