What is Codependency?

What is Codependency?

Codependency is defined as a series of behaviors that involve or result from being physically, emotionally, or in any other way overfocused an another individual, usually at a detriment to your own wellbeing. There are several types of codependency. If you are...
What Exactly is Codependency?

What Exactly is Codependency?

Codependency is one of those terms that you’ve probably heard thrown around a lot. You probably have some idea of what it means, but you may not know exactly. So, what does it mean to be co-dependent? Codependence is often talked about in the context of relationships....
4 Personal Boundaries That Are Present In A Healthy Relationship

4 Personal Boundaries That Are Present In A Healthy Relationship

You might think that boundaries are unnecessary. Maybe you feel that limits will stifle the spontaneity in your relationship. However, all healthy relationships need boundaries. Boundaries are like a road map for your relationship. They provide a guide for how your...
Codependent?  Self-Care is not Selfish

Codependent? Self-Care is not Selfish

Memorial Day weekend was coming up and I had three days off to decide what to do with. Because I am balancing a job and my counseling practice, a family, and my own self care needs, normally this is time to get “a bunch of stuff done.” I consider myself a...
Codependency and the Difference Between Caretaking and Caregiving

Codependency and the Difference Between Caretaking and Caregiving

Initially, the term codependency applied to those living in households with a substance abuser. Today, researchers are aware that people in general display the characteristics of codependency. In fact, if you were raised in a dysfunctional family situation – be that...
7 Ways to Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy

7 Ways to Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy

Are you your own worst enemy? Do you do what you shouldn’t and fail to do what you should? Maybe you know you shouldn’t eat certain things due to a health problem – but you do it anyways. Maybe you know you really need to get an assignment done by the end of the week...