What Exactly is Codependency?

What Exactly is Codependency?

Codependency is one of those terms that you’ve probably heard thrown around a lot. You probably have some idea of what it means, but you may not know exactly. So, what does it mean to be co-dependent? Codependence is often talked about in the context of relationships....
4 Personal Boundaries That Are Present In A Healthy Relationship

4 Personal Boundaries That Are Present In A Healthy Relationship

You might think that boundaries are unnecessary. Maybe you feel that limits will stifle the spontaneity in your relationship. However, all healthy relationships need boundaries. Boundaries are like a road map for your relationship. They provide a guide for how your...
Codependent?  Self-Care is not Selfish

Codependent? Self-Care is not Selfish

Memorial Day weekend was coming up and I had three days off to decide what to do with. Because I am balancing a job and my counseling practice, a family, and my own self care needs, normally this is time to get “a bunch of stuff done.” I consider myself a...
Codependency and the Difference Between Caretaking and Caregiving

Codependency and the Difference Between Caretaking and Caregiving

Initially, the term codependency applied to those living in households with a substance abuser. Today, researchers are aware that people in general display the characteristics of codependency. In fact, if you were raised in a dysfunctional family situation – be that...
What is a Codependent Relationship? Look For These Signs

What is a Codependent Relationship? Look For These Signs

A codependent relationship is defined as dependency on the approval of another person for your self-worth and identity. The behavior pattern of a person in a codependent relationship leads them to ignore their own needs, wants, and desires in a relationship, at times...