Co-Parenting Counseling

Divorce happens. Adult relationships end.
  • Your ex is the last person you want to see, but you share children together, so you don’t have a choice.
  • It is so hard to get along with your ex, but you have to for the sake of your children.
  • You worry about the impact of the divorce on your children
  • You want to put your feelings aside and take on somewhat of a “business-like” relationship with your ex, but you’re not sure where to start.
  • You’re not sure how to deal with your ex’s new partner.
  • You may have children together and have never been a couple but now need to co parent your child.
But, you can re-build a polite relationship with the other parent of your child and help your children navigate the challenges of having two households.

Co-Parenting After a Divorce or Separation Can Be Challenging

The goal of co-parenting is to get you as parents on the same page in regards to parenting your children. It is important to remember that your children did not ask for this divorce. They need to be able to love both their parents.

When you attend co-parent counseling in Roseville you are given the opportunity to learn how to cope with the challenges of parenting with your ex. You will work on resolving differences and conflicts so you can put your child’s needs first. Counseling isn’t about your personal agenda. It’s about working through your differences so that it feels as much like a win/win as a divorce or separation can. Tensions can be high while the divorce is being finalized. But, your children need to feel like they are being heard and they can grieve the loss of the family unit. Counseling will allow you to work on a plan to parent with your ex so you are able to focus your attention on your children during this challenging time.

Co-Parenting After a Divorce or Separation Can Be Challenging

Yes. It is Hard to Parent with Your Ex

Co-Parenting Counseling
Many children, especially teens, feel conflicted about what parent they should side with. This may be made worse if they hear too much adult information regarding the separation along the way. Some parents confide in their children, make them their best friend and share too much with them. Sometimes a parent will even try to alienate their children from the other parent.

Even intact families have differences in parenting. Going through a divorce just makes it even harder to negotiate with one another. With the help of a relationship therapist, you can find common ground on parenting issues and communicate in a calm and respectful way If you could communicate in a calm and respectful manner. Together with your therapist, you can create a co-parenting plan that meets the needs of everyone in your family.

Co-Parenting Counseling in the Fair Oaks Area Can Help You Learn to Parent with Your Child’s Other Parent.

Co-Parenting Counseling

Co-parenting counseling is designed to help separated parents be parents. This isn’t about working on the relationship between the two of you anymore. Instead, we will help each of you figure out how to work together when parenting your children. Counseling is a safe space for you to communicate with each other. We want both parents to feel comfortable bringing up concerns and ideas regarding parenting their children.

During co-parenting classes or counseling sessions, we will address a variety of topics that may be causing you stress. This could be about shared parenting, a flexible schedule, negotiating days and times when you have your children, or ways to be more consistent with rules and discipline. Step-parents and new partners should also agree to uphold the rules and discipline methods that you decide upon in counseling. It’s important that both parents understand that it is harmful to talk badly about the other in front of the children. This can be especially challenging for many partners. We use the evidence based, “Between Two Homes” program that will include a book and workbook for both of you.

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