Do I Have to Talk About My Trauma in Therapy?

Do I Have to Talk About My Trauma in Therapy?

If you have ever tried to explain something painful and felt your mind go blank, your body go numb, or your words disappear halfway through a sentence, that is not a sign that you are doing therapy wrong. Trauma is often hard to talk about for reasons that make...
Is Brainspotting Effective for PTSD?

Is Brainspotting Effective for PTSD?

Yes. Brainspotting is effective for PTSD, and the research behind it is growing in encouraging ways. It is a body-based trauma treatment that works differently from traditional talk therapy and somewhat differently from EMDR. If you are in Roseville, Fair Oaks, or the...
What Is the Most Effective Treatment for Trauma?

What Is the Most Effective Treatment for Trauma?

Trauma therapy has changed in important ways over the last two decades. If you are at the point where you already know you want help and are now trying to compare your options, that change matters. Many people have heard terms like EMDR, Brainspotting, Cognitive...
Can Trauma Therapy and Couples Counseling Happen at the Same Time?

Can Trauma Therapy and Couples Counseling Happen at the Same Time?

Yes — for many people, trauma therapy, couples therapy, and marriage counseling can happen at the same time, and often that is not only possible but genuinely helpful. They are not doing the same job. Individual trauma work addresses what one or both partners are...
What Does PTSD Look Like in a Marriage?

What Does PTSD Look Like in a Marriage?

Sometimes it looks like a conflict that jumps from small to huge in seconds. Sometimes it looks like a spouse who is home, but hard to reach. Sometimes it looks like walking carefully around moods, distance, silence, or reactions you do not fully understand. If you...
Will Trauma Therapy Make Me Feel Worse Before I Feel Better?

Will Trauma Therapy Make Me Feel Worse Before I Feel Better?

One of the hardest parts of starting trauma therapy is that the beginning can feel more intense than people expected. That surprises a lot of clients. From the outside, a session may look calm. You sit in a chair. You talk. You breathe. Maybe you cry a little. But...