Can Trauma Therapy and Couples Counseling Happen at the Same Time?

Can Trauma Therapy and Couples Counseling Happen at the Same Time?

Yes — for many people, trauma therapy, couples therapy, and marriage counseling can happen at the same time, and often that is not only possible but genuinely helpful. They are not doing the same job. Individual trauma work addresses what one or both partners are...
What Does PTSD Look Like in a Marriage?

What Does PTSD Look Like in a Marriage?

Sometimes it looks like a conflict that jumps from small to huge in seconds. Sometimes it looks like a spouse who is home, but hard to reach. Sometimes it looks like walking carefully around moods, distance, silence, or reactions you do not fully understand. If you...
Will Trauma Therapy Make Me Feel Worse Before I Feel Better?

Will Trauma Therapy Make Me Feel Worse Before I Feel Better?

One of the hardest parts of starting trauma therapy is that the beginning can feel more intense than people expected. That surprises a lot of clients. From the outside, a session may look calm. You sit in a chair. You talk. You breathe. Maybe you cry a little. But...
How Do I Know If I’m Ready to Start Trauma Therapy?

How Do I Know If I’m Ready to Start Trauma Therapy?

There is often a quiet moment before someone finally reaches out for help. Not dramatic. Not cinematic. More like sitting in the car after work, staring at a therapist’s website, and thinking, Maybe later. Maybe when life settles down. Maybe when I feel more ready....
What Is Brainspotting — and How Is It Different from EMDR?

What Is Brainspotting — and How Is It Different from EMDR?

When people start researching trauma therapy, two names often rise to the top: EMDR and Brainspotting. Both are used to help people process painful experiences in ways that go beyond regular talk therapy, but they are not the same. They work differently, feel...
What Actually Happens in Trauma Therapy?

What Actually Happens in Trauma Therapy?

If you’ve been thinking about starting trauma therapy, there’s a good chance the biggest question in your mind is not just what happens in trauma therapy. It’s something deeper: Will this be okay? Can I handle it? Will I be pushed to talk about things I’m not ready to...